iOS root cause: start playback on BUFFER_APPENDED, not canplay

The live timeline caught it: iPhone buffered 513s, readyState stuck at
1, canplay NEVER fired -> play() never called -> eternal Loading.
Now: first BUFFER_APPENDED (hls.js's own 'data is in the pipe' signal)
triggers play, canplay still works, plus a 3s safety retry if still
paused with a non-empty buffer. play() calls are guarded + idempotent.
Desktop + mobile emu regression: playing. assets v=14.

static/index.html

@@ -6,7 +6,7 @@
 <title>ani-web</title>
 <link rel="icon" href="data:image/svg+xml,%3Csvg xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2000/svg' viewBox='0 0 64 64'%3E%3Crect width='64' height='64' rx='14' fill='%23f97316'/%3E%3Ctext x='32' y='45' font-family='sans-serif' font-size='42' font-weight='700' text-anchor='middle' fill='%230e0f13'%3Ea%3C/text%3E%3C/svg%3E">
 
-<link rel="stylesheet" href="style.css?v=13">
+<link rel="stylesheet" href="style.css?v=14">
 </head>
 <body>
 <header>
@@ -30,6 +30,6 @@
      max-age=300 in browser AND possibly in your HTTPS proxy, and a stale
      copy is exactly how users keep seeing an old UI after a deploy -->
 <script src="hls.min.js"></script>
-<script src="app.js?v=13"></script>
+<script src="app.js?v=14"></script>
 </body>
 </html>